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We resolutely looked for our own mistakes RESENTMENT CAUSE AFFECTS MY Where had we been OUR FAULTS ( DEFECTS LIST ) Exam

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1st LIST RESENTMENTS Pages 64 - 67. STEP 4 - Made a searching and fearless moral inventory of ourselves. Resentment is the "number one" offender. It destroys more alcoholics than anything else. We listed people, institutions or principles with whom we were angry. RESENTMENT Example: Right on Ron

CAUSE

AFFECTS MY

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Putting out the wrongs others had done, We resolutely looked for our own mistakes

Where had we been SELFISH, DISHONEST, SELF-SEEKING, FRIGHTENED SELFISH, DISHONEST, SELF-SEEKING, FRIGHTENED SELFISH, DISHONEST, SELF-SEEKING, FRIGHTENED SELFISH, DISHONEST, SELF-SEEKING, FRIGHTENED SELFISH, DISHONEST, SELF-SEEKING, FRIGHTENED SELFISH, DISHONEST, SELF-SEEKING, FRIGHTENED SELFISH, DISHONEST, SELF-SEEKING, FRIGHTENED SELFISH, DISHONEST, SELF-SEEKING, FRIGHTENED SELFISH, DISHONEST, SELF-SEEKING, FRIGHTENED

OUR FAULTS ( DEFECTS LIST ) Jealous, Inconsiderate, Judging

To conclude that others were wrong was as far as most of us ever got.

2nd LIST FEARS Page 68

(The Solution for FEAR is on the Bottom of P 68) We ask him to remove our fear and direct our attention to what He would have us be, At once, we commence to outgrow fear FEAR

WHY

SOLUTION

Swimming

Drowning

Swimming Lessons

Wasn’t it because self-reliance failed us? Self reliance was good as it went, but didn’t go far enough. All men who have FAITH have COURAGE. They TRUST THEIR GOD.

3rd LIST SEX RELATIONSHIPS Page 69 - 70 (These questions are NOT in the BIG BOOK but you might want to look at some of these things) 1. Have I shared personal sex info or have my sexual actions hurt or affected others (ie: porn, family members, STD) 2.How did other peoples sex conduct affect me and others? (ie: my future partners) 3. Were there any sacrifices in my morals or religious beliefs? (A. Was it unwanted) (B. Forced) Or (C. Made us uncomfortable)

SEX RELATIONSHIPS WE SUBJECTED EACH RELATIONSHIP TO THIS TEST-WAS IT SELFISH OR NOT?

NAME: MYSELF, OTHERS -

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WHERE HAD WE BEEN SELFISH?

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WHERE HAD WE BEEN DISHONEST?

C

WHERE HAD WE BEEN INCONSIDERATE?

D

WHOM DID WE HURT?

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DID WE UNJUSTIFIABLY AROUSE JEALOUSY, SUSPICTION OR BITTERNESS

F

WHERE WERE WE AT FAULT?

HONEST, COMMUNICATION, COMPROMISE,

WHAT SHOULD I HAVE DONE INSTEAD?

G

(Sex

Relationship issues like Child Abuse, Sex Abuse that might of happened to us and we clearly have NO FAULTS of our own in anything to do with this other than HOLDING ONTO IT over all these years)  

 

4th LIST HARMS Page 70

We hope you are convinced now that God can remove whatever self-will has blocked you off from him. PEOPLE HURT BY OUR CONDUCT WE HAVE LISTED THE PEOPLE WE HAVE HURT BY OUR CONDUCT, AND ARE WILLING TO STRAIGHTEN OUT THE PAST IF WE CAN

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We have begun to learn tolerance, patience and good will toward all men, even our enemies, for we look on them as sick people.