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SPRING 2020
Hope
Amidst Crisis.
GIVE. PRAY. INSPIRE. Thank you, Catholic Daughters of the Americas, for supporting poor Catholic faith communities through our COVID-19 emergency fund. All are invited to join Catholic Extension in building solidarity between Catholics across the country during these unprecedented times. Catholic faith communities need your help to continue their lifesaving outreach. Express solidarity with impoverished faith communities affected by COVID-19 by giving to our coronavirus response virtual collection basket, praying with and for us and inspiring yourself and others with stories of Catholics coming together to help. Visit catholicextension.org/give. For further information, contact: John Nolan, Director of Development 732-887-0001 [email protected]
Na ti o n al Ch apl ai n’s Message Bish o p Bre n dan J. Cah i l l
Hope and Healing from the Hear t
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weight of violence, I have been conscious salm 34:18 reminds the of peace and joy invading my soul with believer that “The Lord is the victorious power of the rising sun… near to the broken-hearted, The Holy Spirit is the passion with and saves the crushed in spirit.” As I which God loves himself. Man has to write these reflections for the Spring Bishop Brendan J. Cahill correspond to that passion. He has to issue of Share, the date is April 5, and National Chaplain ratify it and accomplish it. If he learns I feel with the world a broken heart how to do this, the world will once again become and a crushed spirit for all those who are suffering capable of true love. We cannot know and love God today. The spread of the coronavirus is continuing, unless God himself seizes hold of us and tears us and there seems to be a lot of finger-pointing in the away from our selfishness. God has to love himself middle of a crisis. At the same time signs of hope in and through us and we shall then live in God’s and healing arise all around us. truth and love will once more become the living I am writing on Palm Sunday and just finished heart of the world.” (Yves Congar, OP, I Believe in celebrating the Mass in an empty Cathedral – with the Holy Spirit, Vol. II: Lord and Giver of Life, p. a community of believers joined by television and 127; The Seabury Press, NY, NY). the internet. People have been connecting in new I don’t know what the situation in our world will ways to share our faith and prayer. Confident that be like when you are able to read this letter. What our God is strong and has always seen us through, I do know is that we will be in the Easter season we gather and pray. The believer acknowledges our praying for the fresh outpouring of the Holy Spirit pain and fear, and turns to the Lord who is near to us at Pentecost. Catholic Daughters united in service in our time of need. The treasury of devotions, art and prayer, our hearts will be opened to become the and liturgical prayers guides the believer through “living heart of the world’ and “capable of true love.” the valley of fear and darkness. We can look to the May God grant you and your families peace and great examples of saints who witness the power of joy in the Holy Spirit. May we all remain confident our faith in every generation. in the love of Mary, our Mother, who faithfully Fr. Alfred Delp was a Catholic priest arrested by intercedes for all God’s children. May we be the the Nazi Gestapo on July 28, 1944, and imprisoned witnesses of hope that flows from the merciful heart until his execution on February 2, 1945. During that in every generation. time one of the meditations he wrote said: “Very often, during the suffering and disturbance +Brendan of these last few months and bent down under the
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Spring 2020 Volume 50 | Number 2
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National Chaplain
You Have A Gift
Bishop Brendan J. Cahill Texas
National Clergy Consultant Rev. Edward Lamp Florida
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See You in Texas
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National Officers National Regent Olga Samaniego • Texas
Membership
National Regent-Elect Sherry Nilles • Iowa
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First Vice National Regent Emily Guilherme • California
Spring Ceremonies
Second Vice National Regent Susan Moné • Arizona National Secretary-Treasurer Essie Walker • North Carolina
National Directors Carol Bogacz West Virginia
M. Susan Hicks Wisconsin
Carolyn Malik Texas
Connie Dronette Louisiana
Rose Holschlag Iowa
Pamela J. Poland Vermont
Peggy Guckin Pennsylvania
Debbie Lattus Maryland
Marialice Sagan Michigan
National Office Martha Hamboussi National Office Manager
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Hope
Amidst Crisis.
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We are all trying to remain hopeful during this terrible crisis. Despite prayer, family and community, it is hard to remain optimistic especially since we no longer have access to the weekly stabilizing spirituality of attending Mass. This Easter was one of the most desolate ever for some of us. But let us remember that, as Catholics, “hope” is the confident expectation that God will hear our prayers and provide grace and sustenance. The authors of the stories in this issue inspire us accordingly. At some point the Covid19 virus will be brought under control and our lives will return to normal. Indeed, one way in which the Catholic Daughters remain hopeful is by moving forward with our Biennial National Convention in Dallas. Stay well, and remain hopeful!
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www.catholicdaughters.org Editorial Offices: Share Magazine Catholic Daughters of the Americas 10 West 71st Street New York, NY 10023 (212) 877-3041
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Contents
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Contemplative Enigmas: Insights and Aid on the Path to Deeper Prayer
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I SAID, “Be still and Know…God”
Maintaining a Strong Family Foundation
Departments 1 National Chaplain's Message
20 Anniversaries
27 News & Notes
4 National Clergy Consultant's Message
22 CDA in Action
33 People
6 National Regent's Message
26 Focus on Youth
Submission of materials for publication in Share: All articles, stories and items must be submitted electronically via email to Tom Panas at the following email address: [email protected]. They should be submitted in a Word document attached to your email or within the body of your email. Photos must be sent in JPEG format as attachments to your email. Beginning with the Fall 2015 Issue NO HARD COPY PHOTOS WILL BE ACCEPTED. Be sure to identify individuals in photo, “from left to right.” Deadlines for final emailing of materials for publication are: Spring issue - February 15; Summer issue - May 15; Fall issue - September 1; Winter issue - December 1. Due to limited space all material appearing in Share is evaluated for interest to readers, theme in keeping with the purpose of Share, educational, informational, and religious value to readers and date received. The publishers are not responsible for factual errors from information submitted by authors and readers. The Catholic Daughters of the Americas has approximately 66,000 members in 1250 courts in the United States, Mexico, Guam, the Virgin Islands, Puerto Rico, Kenya and Peru.
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N at i o n al Cl e rg y Co n s u l tant’s Messag e
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EAR CATHOLIC DAUGHTERS AND FRIENDS: Mary Magdalene finds the empty tomb and runs to the apostles to tell them her astonishing news. Only in St John’s account are the apostles directly involved in finding that the tomb is empty, though neither Jesus nor an angel gives them any guidance about what it means. The Beloved Disciple is beside Peter to see the discarded burial-cloths within the tomb, and he at once realizes what this means: that Jesus is risen from the dead! I remember my emotion on seeing the Grand Canyon in Arizona; my innards were thrilled by the awesomeness of it all. I used my camera, trying to capture the sight, the emotions and the wonder of it. Later, I realized the futility of such photos when I came home and tried to explain to friends what the experience was like. They would need to see it for themselves to appreciate its grandeur. As the saying goes, “For those who don’t know, no words are possible, and for those who understand, no words are necessary.” I sense something like this when reading the resurrection story. It tells of a deeply mysterious fact, but we can’t quite capture what its impact was in the hearts of the disciples, that first Easter day. The Easter message, this truly great news, is timelessly true, and so it is still a message for here and now. We can identify with each person in the story told by Saint John in his Gospel. Do we, like Mary Magdalene, share with others the news of the resurrection? Do we run eagerly to the tomb, like Peter and John, to find out how and whether Jesus can still feature in our lives? Only rarely do we experience the Easter mystery – but we can catch some hint of the wonder of it from the Gospel stories. The message is that God does not forget or forsake us, and the darkest hour is just before the dawn. On Easter morning, the stone is rolled away. Are our hearts like a tomb awaiting new life? Is anything holding us back from renewal of spirit? Is there any hint of addiction, any dark secret never shared with anyone? We can be sickened by our secrets. But as Pope Francis says, we are called to be people of joyful hope, not prophets of doom. Through the resurrection of Jesus, we get an infusion of hope and joy, and an invitation to share them by our way of living. Father Ed National Clergy Consultant
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you will be notified with plenty of time to Y DEAR SISTERS IN CHRIST, cancel your hotel reservations. Financial I can’t believe how quickly time Reviews have been postponed until June passes. Even with the extraordinary 1, 2020. We shall revisit that date should circumstances we have been living through, we still not be able to meet. We are asking we have experienced Lent and have rejoiced that you hold elections as scheduled. If through Easter in what seems like record Olga Samaniego we can have the convention, we will need time. My special thanks to Father Ed Lamp, National Regent everyone’s officers’ lists in ASAP. Connie Dronette, and all the wonderful My one regret during this time is that the pandemic Catholic Daughters who shared their personal spirituality has caused me to have to stop traveling. I had hoped to with us on the CDA Facebook page. You have helped to attend some anniversaries and workshops this spring. I keep us connected to God and to each other while we am sad that I will end my term without being able to do have been apart. that. However, even though we are not physically seeing Thanks, as well, to the state and local officers who have each other, you have all been in my prayers. encouraged members to stay united and to be creative Finally, as Scripture tells us, “…all things work together to accomplish court goals, and thanks to the members for the good of those who love Him, who have been called who have entered into the spirit of the pioneering women according to His purpose.” (Romans 8:28) It has been of CDA! Courts have been having Zoom meetings, hard to curtail our usual activities, but I believe God in conference calls, and email voting so that they could keep His mercy brings good even out of the sequester. I hope up with the needs of the organization. They have held the forced inactivity has brought you a time for rest and online fundraisers and have practiced social distancing renewal, and that you are now ready to head into the while delivering court sponsored meals and fundraisers. future with renewed faith and hope. I am so grateful to all who kept us moving when it was so I pray for your health and safety and for the safety of easy to let everything slide. your families. I also pray for those who are ill and for I have had many questions about elections, financial those who have been lost to this virus. May God keep us reviews, and the convention. With God’s help, we are all in his loving arms until we can be together again. May holding our convention in July! Should we have to cancel, the joy and blessings of the Risen Lord be with you. we will find alternate ways to elect officers and pass bylaws and resolutions. However, I am most hopeful that our plans will continue as scheduled. If we can hold the Olga Samaniego convention, I hope you will all make plans to join us. It National Regent won’t be the same without you. Should we have to cancel,
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LEADERSHIP You Have A Gift Sherry Nilles National Regent-Elect National Leadership Chairman
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very Catholic Daughter has the gift of a talent that is exclusively hers. Do you make the best pies ever? Can you crochet a prayer shawl to share with a nursing home resident or a member who is home bound and lonely? Are you musically talented and willing to join the local church choir or provide delightful entertainment for a meeting? Is your gift the ability to set up the youth carnival or a lunch stand at the town celebration? Will you share your gift of keeping the court books as the court treasurer, or will you write the record of your local court as the court recording secretary? Is your gift leading others to make the best even better? You as a member do have the talents and gifts needed to keep every local, state, and, of course, the national court active and alive. The disappointing thing is that many women put their talents and gifts under a bushel basket rather than letting them shine for all to see. Don’t be one of those who hides them.
THERE ARE THREE REASONS TO SHARE TALENTS AND GIFTS: 1. Gifts are not just for us. God gave us talents and gifts not just for us, but to help the members and all God’s people who surround us. As we benefit from all those with different talents and gifts, we must share ours. What would our world be if no one shared? No doctors, attorneys, childcare facilities! We would be hungry because not everyone can raise the crops, feed the animals, or process them for others to consume. We would have no organizations that do so many charitable programs and projects. Serving only ourselves is rooted in selfishness. Sharing those gifts with other women can create a fulfillment only found in the sharing.
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2. Lives could be changed because your talent was shared. Father Patrick Peyton launched his radio and television ministry just as our country was recovering from World War II. The Korean Conflict was simmering, and a new term, the Cold War, was added to our vocabulary. That did not stop Father Peyton from creating the Family Rosary Crusade and changing the prayer lives of Catholics. You also have the capability to change lives by sharing your special Godgiven gifts. It doesn’t have to be a huge one. Start small, and someone out there will be inspired because of it. In our organization, start with a chairmanship that is of interest. Work diligently on that assignment. Then consider a local court office. Learn each step of the way as you move from one office to the next. Continue sharing by accepting a state or national office.
3. Be more satisfied with your life. Consider your talents and gifts as strengths. Using your leadership potential every day leads to an improved image of yourself and therefore makes you healthier. Less worry, stress and anger will boost positive emotions that lead to having more energy to face daily events. Building on strengths is a much more effective approach to improving overall health than focusing on building up weaknesses. Helping court members share their talents will make them more productive and satisfied as well. Keep Catholic Daughters strong by sharing your Godgiven talents and gifts every day. Many people are given the ability to make a difference by sharing but choose not to let their lights shine. Make a promise to yourself to share your talents and renew that promise every day! You will be a happier, healthier, and more satisfied member.
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s I sit behind the keyboard contemplating a message for this issue of Share, I keep thinking of how Jesus is speaking to us in the gospel reading for today, especially with the current world situation. “If you remain in my word, you will truly be my disciples, and you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free.” As loyal disciples of Christ, I know that we will be set free from the pandemic of this coronavirus. This message is renewal for all God’s people and refreshment for our commitment to working on the many programs and projects for the 2020 National Convention to be held in Dallas, Texas. With that said, we are NOW ready to send in those registration forms to the national office for the delegates, alternates, guests, spouses and clergy. Don’t forget to make arrangements for the fun stuff associated with conventions such as tours, walk/run for love, and especially meals. All state regents and local court regents have now received their official call to convention. Open up that big white envelope marked “Convention Material Enclosed” and read through all materials. Regents, be sure to share the information with your court delegates, membership and everyone interested in attending this big event. Review those proposed bylaw changes and discuss how you want your delegates to vote on the proposed changes.
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In addition to being mailed, the Second Call to Convention is also on the national CDA website at www. catholicdaughters.org. Plan to come in a day or two early not only to partake in the tours but also to participate in the workshops on Tuesday afternoon. Members of the national board have prepared seven informative workshops for the benefit of all members. You don’t want to miss out on the opportunity to learn and gain new and valuable ideas for gaining and retaining members or discussing what works best for you in your local courts. We want members to be excited about attending meetings. Pray with your members as prayer can set a person on fire. Learn the value of families participating in activities and traveling down the Yellow Brick Road together. A workshop on parliamentary procedure will also be held to assist you in conducting effective meetings and another to learn how to handle the difficult situations in your individual courts. Workshops are open to all in attendance at the convention. So, plan to participate in workshops so that you can share what you learn with members who could not be present. See the list of workshops in the Call to Convention packet and on the website. SEE YOU IN JULY IN DALLAS!
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Membership Emily Guilherme First Vice National Regent National Membership Chairman Court Development Chairman
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o much has happened in the almost two-years since our last National Convention! As Catholic Daughters, you have worked hard to bring Christ to the lowly, to proclaim Him from the mountaintops, and show His hope to those who have none. You’ve hosted tea parties, membership drives, and fashion shows. You’ve attended state conventions, liturgies, and prayed the rosary with each other. We’ve laughed together, cried together. We’ve lost sisters who can never be replaced and welcomed new sisters who are now forever part of our hearts. I can’t express how grateful I am to the Lord for the opportunity I’ve had to serve you. Before the next phase of my Catholic Daughters of the America’s journey, I want to take some time to encourage and challenge you in membership and recruiting. I pray that you have been inviting and sharing your love for CDA as often as possible. For me, CDA is like my favorite movie or book; I’ve seen it and read it, I love it, and now I want as many of my sisters as possible to experience it with me. So, if you are in the mindset of keeping CDA to yourself, it’s time to change course. I urge you – do not let CDA be the best kept secret of your parish. Inviting the women in our parish pews to be part of such a dynamic ministry and organization is an invitation to be part of something that can engage a woman in her faith; CDA can help a woman learn more about her faith and then put it into action. In my experience as a Director of Religious Education, I can confidently say that there is rarely ever a shortage of opportunities to serve. Rather, it’s that those who want to serve have no idea how to get started. Catholic Daughters can help bridge that gap for the women sitting in our pews. Pope St. John Paul II said, “For in giving themselves to each other each day women fulfill their deepest vocation.” Please, invite the women in your parish to be part of this! As we’ve seen in recent events in our world, the urgency for being united is real. Coronavirus and Covid-19 have rocked our world to its core, and people are searching for answers. What better way to share our faith than by using this amazing organization to be the light in the darkness? We have the tools and resources to make a difference on so many levels: in families, parishes, dioceses, and in hard-hit
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states and countries that desperately need our support and service. How much good can we do? How much good can we do with more sisters joining us to be the light? As we see each year at Easter Vigil mass when we enter the darkened church with our candles, one candle offers a small amount of light. When our candle is joined by the people and candles throughout the sanctuary, the glow becomes a beautiful and powerful beacon in darkness. As the Catholic Daughters of the Americas, we can help women be the light. We can help fan a flickering candle into a forest fire, but we cannot do that without each of you. My heart is so full of joy and hope for our courts and our membership. My heart is full of optimism when thinking of the future, even in the wake of the worst pandemic we’ve seen in one hundred years. I know that God is in control, and I know He holds us in the palm of His hand. I encourage each of you to abandon yourself to our Father’s merciful Providence. We may be scared and prone to anxiety, but we know God is faithful. I would like to share with you one of the verses that brings me courage in times of personal darkness, one that we heard in mass the last Sunday before quarantine took public masses from us: “Therefore, since we have been justified by faith, we have peace with God through our Lord Jesus Christ, through whom we have gained access [by faith] to this grace in which we stand, and we boast in hope of the glory of God. Not only that, but we even boast of our afflictions, knowing that affliction produces endurance, and endurance, proven character, and proven character, hope, and hope does not disappoint, because the love of God has been poured out into our hearts through the Holy Spirit that has been given to us.” (Romans 5:1-5, NAB) My dear sisters – if (and when) you start becoming afraid remember that hope does not disappoint, EVER! Please, don’t ever forget that. May you keep inviting our Catholic sisters to become Catholic Daughters of the Americas. May you keep being the light in the darkness. May we lift our prayers from our social distancing and isolation in praise and gratitude for the life we’ve been given. And may we soon come together again to share in the love and sisterhood that accompanies our National Convention.
Father Willy Raymond, C.S.C., and all the team at Holy Cross Family Ministries, are keeping you and your families in prayer.
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g n o r t S a g in in a t in Ma Family Foundation Essie Walker National Secretary-Treasurer National Quality of Life Chairman
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ake a brief moment to think of a family as a house. It’s a known fact that a house needs a strong foundation and upkeep in order to survive the inclement weather or just overtime wear and tear. Important things the house will need are ongoing maintenance, love and care. It’s about taking inventory of our house to see exactly what needs to be repaired or replaced. It could mean a new roof, replacing the gutters, remodeling the bathroom, changing the floors from carpet to wood, inspecting the siding and let us not forget the lawn. With the proper upkeep, the house will withstand any type of weather. Now, our families will include our CDA family and the church Community. Regardless which family, the family will have the same principles as a house. In order for families
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to maintain that strong foundation, there is a need for good communication, prayer, showing acts of kindness, spending quality time together, showing appreciation and family rituals. There is no better time for us to spring forward to see how we can better strengthen our family’s foundation. Good communication is a vital component, when it comes to family. It allows members to express their needs and wants. It also gives them the opportunity to share their ideals, difference of opinion, and love for one another. Good communication enables family members to better resolve conflicts and issues. Good communication allows members to be open and honest with one another. They are able to express their true feelings without repercussions. It is important to listen with an open mind and never assume that
what is being said is being understood. Good communication does not just happen, it takes effort and practice. When families pray together it gives them an increased sense of love, peace and harmony in the home, as well as their everyday activities. Set aside a time for all members to get together to pray the rosary or to share a prayer. Choose a time when the family is normally together; such as at meal time, bedtime, or just a family gathering. Extend an invitation to the grandchildren and the elder family members. Always remember the saying that “the family that prays together stays together.” If time does not permit, just come together to say “thank you Lord for all you have done for us. We ask that You watch over us as we go about our daily activities.” Regardless of what is taking place in the home, always make time to give thanks for life, health and strength. Showing acts of kindness is a great way for families, CDA members and the church community to come together to help those in need. Surround yourself with families who are working toward the same goals. Just think of the difference you will make in someone’s life. Contributions can be emotional or spiritual support, supporting a program for the less fortunate or offering comfort to the sick or an elderly person. Spending quality time together will put everyone in a different kind of mind space. With the right mindset, spending time together can be a time of rest and relaxation or it could be something as simple as planning a meal together or a day trip to the beach. Make every effort to spend quality time together. In today’s busy world, it is sometimes difficult for families to find time to spend together. All relationships need attention and this includes the family as a whole. Just think how busy you are in your own family. Show appreciation to one another; express positive feelings. Most importantly, give each other emotional support. Let words of praise replace finding fault. Family rituals offer a set time for families to get together and give each other the attention needed. A family ritual is simply a time that is set aside, just for family. There is no better way to stay connected than to plan activities in which everyone can participate. Now, let us come together and take inventory of a few activities that can be shared among family members, CDA members, church community and those in the neighborhood. It’s important to choose activities that will enhance participants spiritually as well as strengthen their relationships within the family.
• Attend mass as a family (schedule times the first of the month). • Participate in parish activities as a family. • Learn new ways to pray. Pray out loud together. • Have each person tell the story of their favorite Saint. • Ask each member to come up with a random act of kindness. • Plan a shared meal at a CDA meeting. • Plan a family meal night. Have all families bring their favorite dish. • Adopt an elementary class during the school year. • On a Saturday make sandwiches to feed the homeless. • Schedule time to spend together. • Watch a faith related movie together. • Seek out a charity and donate. • Plan a movie night. • Plan a CDA game night. • Volunteer as a family or CDA court. • Include all members in planning and cooking dinner. • Go to a fruit farm and pick your own fruit. • Take a one-day road trip. Make sure to visit points of interest along the way. • Organize a monthly family bike ride in the community. • Learn a new hobby together such as painting or photography. • Plant a community garden and share with neighbors and church community. • Attend a sporting event. • Hold a dessert night at your parish. • Discuss how each member would like to serve in the church. • Gather and take photos of living relatives. This will be great for the future generation. • Work on a family tree. Get to know your family history. • Work on a CDA family tree. • Help the sick and shut-in’s. • Consider discussing scriptures in different ways. • Hold a family or CDA council encouraging members to share their thoughts and ideas. • Take time to say “thank you,” “please,” and “I’m sorry.” • Include humor in meetings. • Hold celebration dinners. • Work as a team.
“The openness of our hearts and minds can be measured by how wide we draw the circle of what we call family.” Mother Teresa
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Spring Ceremonies Susan Moné Second Vice National Regent
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elcome Summer! The past few months have been a real challenge on all levels for everyone the world over. As I write this, we are all in quarantine and lockdowns. Unthinkable numbers of people are sick and unprecedented numbers are dying. I pray that by the time you read this, we are getting back to normal at home and with our Catholic Daughters. As always, the Catholic Daughters jumped into action in this time of crisis. It’s who we are and what we are all about: prayer and service. I am so proud of our CDA and thankful for all of our CDA sisters. So many stories have come out about how Catholic Daughters have helped us travel these uncharted waters by many means. CDA members checked up on each other, shopped for the most vulnerable, delivered meals to those homebound, and helped each other see God through it all. Thank you to all the courts and members who kept us calm and growing in our faith, and who continue to keep us connected with the many online services, daily rosaries, Divine Mercy chaplet, prayers, novenas and daily masses. Thank you to our National Clergy Consultant for his encouraging and calming words to keep us focused and knowing that God is always in control. In our isolation we have stayed connected as sisters. Our National Regent has kept us on track and gives encouragement to keep our courts up and running in whatever way we can and focusing us with hope for Dallas in July. What a blessing to be proud members of our wonderful organization! Praise God! During the past months we have all had to think outside of the box and come up with ways to continue managing our individual courts, our State Courts and the National Office. During this time each court has worked out a system to do elections in the best possible manner. And so, we all move
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on to a new journey with newly elected officers. Thank you to the officers who have completed their term, ending it with uncharted challenges and now passing the torch. Congratulations to all newly elected officers as you take on the leadership of your court and for saying yes during such uncertain and scary times. May the Holy Spirit and our Blessed Mother guide you as you move forward. I hope that your members pray daily for you and give their support. After elections we want to celebrate our new officers in the traditions of our order. The new officers officially take office 30 days after the election, but we want to make it special for them by having a lovely Installation Ceremony. In the Tools of the Trade you can find the Installation of Officers with all the instructions to have a beautiful and meaningful ceremony either at a mass or in your meeting room setting. I highly encourage you to celebrate with a Mass in praise and thanksgiving to Our Lord. Make your Mass and Installation something extra special. With our churches closed as none of us have ever experienced in our life, this is a special time to feel blessed to have our Catholic faith and show our gratitude for the blessings of our Catholic church with the celebration of Mass and receiving the Lord in the Holy Eucharist. The Installation ceremony doesn’t have to take place immediately. Your court can choose to wait until September when people are returning from summer travels and courts start their new year. New officers will have the opportunity to wear their robes with pride and celebrate our beautiful traditions. Our ceremonies help members to begin anew Refreshed, Renewed, and Ready to start a new chapter of your local court history. Celebrate proudly who we are as Catholic Daughters of the Americas.
Ceremony for the first post virus meeting (Set your Mary shrine up with 5 candles. Each officer lights a candle before her reading.)
Court Chaplain/Regent;
Recording Secretary:
Dear Lord, we gather together today to begin a new season as members of the Catholic Daughters of the Americas Court __________________ #_________ under the guidance of the Holy Spirit and our new officers. Our courts have traveled a journey through a scary and devastating crisis, but know that you were carrying us in the palm of your hand during the months of sailing in uncharted waters. We ask for your continued guidance and protection as we join together to continue in Unity and Charity as we grow closer to you with programs of Spirituality and Service. We especially pray for our members who were victims themselves and/or family members and for any who died because of the virus. Let us Pray. Response: We thank you and praise you Lord.
We pray with heartfelt thanks and gratitude for all those in the health care profession who worked long and difficult hours away from their own families putting themselves at risk to care for those who were seriously affected with life threatening corona virus and who worked in many situations where the necessary supplies and protective wear were not available. Let us Pray. Response: We thank you and praise you Lord.
Financial Secretary: We pray with concern for all those who are small business owners suffering great loss of income and for all who suffered because of job loss or lay-offs making them unable to pay their bills and provide even basic necessities for their family. Let us Pray. Response: We thank you and praise you Lord.
Regent: We pray with thankfulness for our Pope, priests, deacons and religious who worked tirelessly during the Covid-19 crisis to keep us connected as a Catholic community by bringing us opportunities to be able to continue to grow in our faith and devotion to God through endless prayers, daily Masses, novenas, rosaries, Divine Mercy chaplet, Lenten missions and retreats. Let us Pray. Response: We thank you and praise you Lord.
Vice Regent: We pray with gratitude for our President, his advisors, and our state governors who made tough decisions and restrictions based on the knowledge available to them in a war of unimaginable situations with a dangerous unknown enemy using their best efforts to protect the American population and economy. Let us Pray. Response: We thank you and praise you Lord.
Treasurer: We pray for students throughout the country who missed a whole quarter of their school year separated from friends. We especially remember the seniors of the Class of 2020. These students were born as we suffered and grieved recovering from 911 and end their high school years in the crisis of covid-19 preventing them from enjoying the final months of senior year, senior prom and the joy of walking on stage to receive their diploma with their classmates. May God bless and protect them as they move on. Let us Pray. Response: We thank you and praise you Lord.
Chaplain/Regent: Today Lord we come together to celebrate our new court officers. We ask that You guide them as they lead our court. Bless and protect all our members, especially those who are ill. We ask this in the name of the Risen Lord Jesus Christ, Amen. CATHOLICDAUGHTERS.ORG
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“Be still and Know…God” Connie Dronette National Director National Spiritual Enhancement Chairman
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remember sitting in a faculty meeting on Wednesday, March 11, and being told that our state leaders were thinking about closing public schools in the state of Louisiana because of the Coronavirus. It didn’t seem possible that they would close schools in our parish when we didn’t have any cases yet. I thought we had plenty of time, if we would be involved in the closings at all. How would the students receive services? But only two days later, on Friday, March 13, we received the news that all schools in the state would be closed starting on Monday. Of course, as a teacher, I had many questions running through my mind. What about state testing? I know that this happened in states throughout the country, so you were probably having the same concerns and thoughts that I was. How could we know what was coming next! It didn’t take long for the stay at home order to be given in many states, including my own. The new norm was frequent washing of hands, wearing masks, and a new concept, social distancing. Being a hugger, social distancing was very difficult for me. It became confusing and disheartening to watch the news. One day it would be reported to wear masks, etc., the next day, it would be reported not to. I gave up on the news and turned the TV off. It was surreal. It was hard to believe what was happening.
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At first, I thought that it would all be over in a couple of weeks. The president and his task force, in one of their daily briefings, said that we would be back to work and life for Easter. It didn’t take many days for him to come back with the news that it would be the end of April and that churches, restaurants, etc. would not be open for Easter. I remember just blankly watching the TV screen thinking, how can we not be in church for Easter? IF the devil thought that he could stop us from living our faith at the most important time of the year, he had another think coming! Many priests learned how to stream their masses and reflections on Facebook. That is one thing that the devil didn’t count on! For the first time, Facebook had more Masses posted than political rants! I longed for social interaction. One day, I watched Theresa Duran, New York First Vice State Regent, lead a prayer service on Facebook and was so moved. I knew that I could learn how to stream too, so I started live prayer services on the National Facebook page twice a day. I was so excited to meet so many CDA members from around the country. We became a prayerful force to be reckoned with. I was missing teaching, so I started teaching my CDA sisters during our two daily prayer services. I learned so many new devotions and
“We might be social distancing, but we don’t have to settle for spiritual distancing.”
passed them on. We received many prayer intentions, and we prayed fervently for each one. I read a Facebook post that said, “We might be social distancing, but we don’t have to settle for spiritual distancing.” This became my motto. My living room had become the church for me. I would stream the live Masses on Sunday from my TV and David and I would attend the Mass. I was blessed enough to go to confession the night before the church closed, but our church offered drive-through confessions twice a week. Who would have ever thought this would happen? Our Adoration Chapel was open daily, and I signed up for two extra hours a week. Only ten people were allowed in the chapel at a time and many times there were ten. One highlight in all those days was the special Urbi et Orbi blessing that the Pope gave from St. Peter’s Square. I had never heard of such a blessing. When I heard that he gives this blessing every Christmas and Easter, I remember thinking that I would never miss it again. I was saddened to see the Pope look so frail and wanted to cry out Papa and hug him, but no hugs were allowed! I couldn’t imagine not attending the Triduum services that I love so much. It was shattering news for the faithful all over the country. How could we relive the passion of Christ suffering,
death, and resurrection without being in Church? We had to be creative! We watched the live streams from our church. We even attended by parking in our church parking lot, with many other cars, and watched the Mass that was taking place in the church on the live Facebook stream on our phone. On Good Friday, a neighborhood in our town set up a Neighborhood Stations of the Cross for the faithful to drive through for meditation and prayer. People stayed in their cars and drove through. It was beautiful to see a neighborhood come together and offer it for the entire community. I hosted a Seder Meal on Holy Thursday straight from my living room. In the blink of an eye, our schedules were wiped clean. Like many of you, I had more time on my hands to pray and reflect. I said prayers that I hadn’t said in years. It became one of my holiest Easters of all time. But what will all this mean when life returns to normal; do we too? This was a time that God gave us to grow closer to Him. It was a time given to us to restore and refresh us. A time to transform our lives and know that He will always be our anchor in all storms. What will we do with this precious gift that others considered a terrible inconvenience? How will we live out the promises made to us at Easter?
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CENTENNIAL ANNIVERSARY FOR ILLINOIS COURT
ANNIVERSARIES
NEW YORK COURT CELEBRATES 95 YEARS Court Nativity of Our Lady #931, Brockport, New York, celebrated its 95th anniversary on December 14, 2019 -- the exact date when the court was instituted 95 years ago. In the photo, anniversary celebrants, seated, left to right, Sandy Fortunato, Pat Connors, Evelyn Krekic, Donna Glogowski (Regent), Mary Daniels, Charilla S Conner and Doris Lista. Standing, Diane MacEwan, Susan Decker, Theresa Sweney, Joan LaVall, Sue Perrino, Karen Sweeting, Catherine Benedict and Court Chaplain Father Joseph McCarthy.
Court St. Joan #522, Carrollton, Illinois, will be celebrating its 100th anniversary on June 20 of this year. Court St. Joan, which currently numbers 55, was chartered with 49 members. Gathering for a pre-anniversary group photo are court members seated, left to right, Bonnie Flowers, Recording Secretary Alice Massey, Vice Regent Tammy Isringhausen, Financial Secretary Theresa Strahan, Court Chaplain Pastor Emeritus Father Henry Schmidt, Court Chaplain Father Mariadas Chatla, Betty Witt, Kathy Kaiser, Sue Ellen Houseman and granddaughter Raynee Houseman, Connie Barnard and Betty Mullink. Standing, left to right, Regent Denise Sanders, Treasurer Mary Dawdy, Kathy Peters, Carol Nord, Stacy Vandersand, Joyce Talley, Donna Lurton, Becky Reed, Mary Lou Kraut, JoAn Benz, Suzanne Steinacher, Kathy Carter, Carol Bishop, Nancy Telzrow, Elaine Bugos, Mary Jane Schofield, Vi McGuire, Carolyn Howland, Mary Gillingham, Donna Flatt, Mary Helen Isringhausen, Marge Shade, Mary Loyet, Andrea Evans, Phyllis Didier, Bev Lakin and Melissa Palen.
ILLINOIS COURT CELEBRATES ONE-HUNDRED YEARS
PENNSYLVANIA COURT CELEBRATES TEN YEARS
Members of Court West Chicago #432, West Chicago, Illinois, celebrated the court’s centennial milestone with Mass followed by a luncheon, speakers and entertainment. The court was thankful for all of the people who attended, including family, friends, community members and sisters from other Illinois courts. In the photo, left to right, bottom row, Regent Trini Cantu, Anna Co, Marilyn Early, Rita Thomas, Carole Weigand, Karen Carlson, Linda Helminiak, Rita Kitching and Evelyn Opaczewski. Second row, Carol Vigsnes, Madeleine Bartsch, Mary Ann Radkiewicz, Jan Lootens, Maria Fernandez, Alice Tinnes, Julie Barnoski, Pat Scheckel and Ellie Parsons. Top row, Rosie Campos, Jayme Schwantes, Jodi Rempala, Sylvia Mosier, Karen Candusso and Rev. David Lawrence, Pastor, St. Mary’s Parish.
Court Mystical Rose #2628, Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, celebrated its tenth Anniversary with Mass and luncheon. Seen gathered in the church during the celebration are front row, Marie Galen, Treasurer Donna Bradley, Financial Secretary Maryann Voystock, Regent Sara Janulewicz, District Deputy JoAnn Lynn, National Director Peggy Guckin, Pennsylvania State Secretary Colette McCaffrey, Vice Regent Lorraine Gribben, Recording Secretary Betty Maier and Betty Corcoran. Second row, Kathy Mulholland, Bernadette Mulholland, Violet Cali, Marge Hall, Mary Becker, Mary Mullen, Regina Price, Henrietta Hassinger, Mae Spain, Pat Mundy and Laura Daniels. Third row, members of Knights of Columbus Regina Coeli #4921 and fourth row, Pastor Rev. Msgr. Paul M. Kennedy and Chaplain Rev. David Buffum.
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CALLED TO SERVE By Gina Ponessa, Court McLaughlin #422 Recited by her at Court Anniversary Celebration Who would have ever imagined in the year nineteen hundred nineteen How Father Patrick McLaughlin’s interest could help fulfill a dream Though saintly and much beloved, his life was just way too short But, because of him, the ladies of #422 soon became a Court. Though not biologically sisters, a family still we are And the work we’ve accomplished for a hundred years has amazingly come far Helping those less fortunate through unity and charity We’ve stepped out in faith to do what we could to help our community.
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Giving what we can to our brothers who simply have no choice In what cards the world has dealt them, so we try to be their voice Advocating for unborn babies, fighting trafficking in every form Doing whatsoever we can to protect our children from harm.
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Court McLaughlin #422, Saratoga Springs, New York, celebrated its anniversary on November 23rd, the date it was instituted 100 years ago. During the proceedings, court member Gina Ponessa recited a special poem that was well received, which you can read. In the photo are court officers Financial Secretary Joanne Wildy, Vice Regent Lucille Koch, Regent Ann Argentine, Recording Secretary Karen Powers and Treasurer Sheila Daignault. Behind the officers are Spiritual Advisor Deacon Ed Solomon and Rev. Tom Chevalier, Pastor of the Church of St. Peter, Saratoga Springs, where the anniversary Mass was celebrated.
Each and every person has an important part to play And when we can’t get things done the way we’d like, there’s always another day To nurse the sick, feed the hungry, provide shelter for the homeless Sponsoring seminarians, assisting our churches -- the list is certainly endless.
Supporting our military who help us to remain free Providing aid whenever it’s needed and wherever it might be Praying for God’s guidance to point us in the right direction Hoping that our efforts are of Him a mirrored reflection. We all pull together as a team to do the work of our Lord We try to support each other through the power of His word We pray His many blessings continue on through the coming years And may His grace protect us and all those who we hold dear.
ONE-HUNDRED YEARS FOR IOWA COURT CHARTER MEMBER HONORED BY LOUISIANA COURT Court St. Helena #2536, Amite, Louisiana, celebrated its 15th year by acknowledging charter member Savina Campo, in the center of the photo, surrounded by her family.
Court Sacred Heart #408, Spencer, Iowa, celebrated its centennial anniversary with fun and fellowship. The festivities included Mass, brunch, program and door prize drawings. Joining the court members in the picture are National RegentElect Sherry Nilles (front, center), Iowa state officers and current and former Sacred Heart Parish priests. Court Sacred Heart currently has over 65 members and continues to grow.
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TEXAS COURT SERVES THANKSGIVING DINNER Members of Court Mother of Divine Grace #2717, Edinburg, Texas, were able to provide a complete Thanksgiving meal to 80 families. Other charitable court activities followed including donating more than 100 backpacks with school supplies to students in need and giving hundreds of toys to the local “Toy Drive” at Christmas. In the photo, standing behind donated items, court members offer a “Curbside Service” for families in need.
DOMESTIC VIOLENCE TARGETED BY ARIZONA COURT Court Our Lady of the Lake #2213, Lake Havasu City, Arizona, held a shower for Faith & Grace Houses, a local women’s shelter that opened last year whose purpose is to provide services for women and children endangered by domestic violence situations. Their mission is to protect, support and supply services to domestic violence survivors to enable a safer, healthier and more productive lifestyle. Items donated included grocery gift cards, toilet paper, paper towels, laundry detergent, full size shampoo and conditioner, cleaning supplies and feminine hygiene products. The bright smiles of the court members in the photo reflect their joy helping young women in need.
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VERMONT COURT MAKES A DIFFERENCE
Court Norfolk #1212, Norfolk, Virginia, held its second annual baby shower for Birthright. According to its website, “for over 50 years, Birthright has been helping women with unplanned pregnancies.” Before the baby shower, court members worked hard knitting and crocheting baby hats, booties and blankets. In the photo, front row, Karen Owens (holding the CDA banner), Andrea Aguirre, Birthright Director Dora Sockel, Carol Powell, Financial Secretary Roz Seigel, Helen Donovan, Alice Wood and Evie Standle. Back row, Mary Brennan, Joyce Carroll (peeking out behind), Theresa Rozelle, Treasurer Anne Stafford, Andrea Danson, Chaplain Deacon Michael Brown, Charlotte Cohea, Andrea Ortwein and Regent Dianne Elings. Officers missing from the picture due to illness are Vice Regent Dolores Sabisky, who had the idea for the first baby shower, and Secretary Pat Trent.
Court St. Veronica #1273, Hardwick, Vermont, participated in Make a Difference Day by making 29 prayer blankets. Court Chaplain Rev. Thomas Aquinas blessed the blankets at the court’s November meeting. Court St. Veronica started its Prayer Blanket Ministry in 2007, and since then, more than 400 people have received a prayer blanket and all the prayers that go with it. In the photo, left to right, Regent Annette Gann, Prayer Blanket Chair Madeleine Beauregard, Gale LeBlanc, Robin Gauthier and Adrienne Olney.
NEW JERSEY STATE ADVOCATES FOR FACILITY
VETERANS COMFORTED BY MASSACHUSETTS COURT Members of Court St. John Eudes #987, Hudson, Massachusetts, created lap afghans for a local veterans’ hospital. In the photo members hold up afghans which they presented to veterans’ representative Brian Stearns, standing in the photo.
The New Jersey State Court sponsors an annual Residence Fund Award to facilities and programs assisting the elderly and those in need. Court Our Lady of Mercy #1655, Sea Isle City, New Jersey, applied on behalf of Villa Raffaella Senior Assisted Living Community. Villa Raffaella, home to several court members, was selected as the recipient for the Camden Diocese. This grant will assist the Villa to provide a loving, caring and spiritual home for elder adults. In the photo Regent Chickie Flora, center, presents a $5000 check to the Villa’s Mother Eletta, right, and Sister Ronnie, left, while court members, Villa staff, residents and family members look on.
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BIRTHRIGHT HELPED BY VIRGINIA COURT
MASSACHUSETTS COURT AIDS THE UNBORN
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LOUISIANA COURT HELPS NURSING HOME AND VETERANS Court Monsignor J.V. Plauche Court #1761, Bossier City, Louisiana, celebrated the holidays with the residents at Pilgrim Manor Nursing Home and Veterans at the Northwest Louisiana War Veterans Home. The court gave gifts of handmade lap blankets and throws crocheted by Regent JoAnn Dulaney and member Loretta Deville (seen in the photo with their creations, JoAnn, left and Loretta, right). Court members secured donations of yarn from the community and the ladies crocheted over 35 lap blankets. They were distributed during the communion service at Pilgrim Manor and during Mass at the Northwest Louisiana War Veterans Home.
Court Maplewood #510 Malden, Massachusetts, hosted its second annual Pennies for the Unborn collection at St. Joseph’s Church, Malden, Massachusetts. Chairwoman Janet Mercer, seen in the photo on the left with court members behind a statue of the Blessed Mother, said, “someone has to speak for those who can’t,” adding that parishioners responded very generously donating over $1000.
ABUSED CHILDREN HELPED BY TEXAS COURT
MINNESOTA COURT ASSISTS PREGNANT WOMEN Court Joan of Arc #691, Blue Earth, Minnesota, collected baby items and financial donations for the area Options Pregnancy Center which serves the needs of pregnant women and their children. In the photo court members stand behind a table with items to be donated.
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Court Queen of Peace #2710, Wichita Falls, Texas, donated cleaning items to Rainbow House as their 2019 Christmas Project. Rainbow House is a local non-profit organization in Wichita Falls that is an emergency resource for abused children. Rainbow House distributes new items to clients and foster children in Child Protective Services to ease their transition to foster care. The cleaning items were collected at the court’s annual Christmas Party. Pictured is Rainbow House Project Chairman Gail Anderson with the donated gift items.
TOYS DONATED BY OHIO COURT Court Ashtabula #393, Ashtabula, Ohio, joined forces with Our Lady of Peace Altar and Rosary Society to hold a Christmas Party at which the 24 people attending donated toys to Holiday Angels Loving Others (HALO), which helps the less fortunate during the holiday season. In the photo, standing behind the toys collected, left to right, Our Lady of Peace Pastor Father Raymond Thomas; Treasurer MiMi Notarianni; Rev. John Mulqueen; court member Beverly McKeen; Altar and Rosary Society President MiMi Puchan and Altar and Rosary member Sandy Kozel.
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OREGON COURT SUPPORTS CATHOLIC SCHOOL Court St. Anne #1089, Oregon City, Oregon, sponsored its annual holiday bazaar and baked goods sale. Local artists and other vendors rented booths to display their wares. Court members sold baked goods and Christmas ornaments. With the profits earned from the sale, Court St. Anne contributed $1,000 toward improved security for St. John the Apostle Catholic School. Pictured, left to right, Markie Talarsky, Court Secretary Christina Kerovecz, Roseanne Cotton and Mary Carow.
NEW YORK COURT CARES FOR CHILDREN
TEXAS COURT GIVES TO NURSING HOME Court St. Ann Mother of Mary #2649, La Vernia, Texas, filled gift bags for the approximately 90 residents of Country Care Manor, a local Nursing Home in La Vernia. The gift bags included fleece lap robes, toiletry items, jig-saw puzzles, puzzle books, gloves, socks, handkerchiefs, scarves and other similar items. The gift bags are donated by the court and parishioners of St. Ann Catholic Church. This is a yearly activity for the court.
Court St. Elizabeth #2687, Melville, New York, donated 74 shoeboxes to Samaritan Purse’s Operation Christmas Child project. The boxes contained small toys, hygiene products, school supplies and a Christmas greeting. The boxes can be delivered anywhere in the world where children have been affected by war, poverty, natural disaster, famine and disease, or to children living on Native American reservations in the U.S. Since the program began in 1993 Operation Christmas Child has delivered gift-filled shoeboxes to over 168 million children in more than 100 countries. In the photo, court members stand behind the colorful shoe boxes prepared for the children.
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MASSACHUSETTS WELCOMES NEW JCDA COURT Massachusetts welcomes its newest JCDA Court. Court St. Bernadette, Brockton, Massachusetts, held its November meeting at the Connemara Assisted Living Facility where the girls worked with the residents to create a holiday decoration for their doors. The Juniors also sold candy bars and raffled off a Family Advent Basket after the Masses to raise funds for their charity work and court support. In the photo are members of the new JCDA Court. Congratulations to the young women – and welcome!
IDAHO JUNIORS DECORATE TREE FOR SENIORS Members of JCDA Court St. Joan of Arc, Nampa, Idaho, made decorations and created a Woodland Winter Tree for the Canyon County Festival of Trees to raise funds for Meals on Wheels According to its website, the purpose of Meals on Wheels “is to promote the delivery of nutritious, low cost meals for the elderly and for other persons not able to provide meals for themselves.” Decorations included cardinals made from pinecones, toilet paper roll owls, fox and bears made from felt, walnut reindeer and wooden moose. Senior Court Our Lady of Victory #1348, Nampa, Idaho, sponsored the girls by donating the tree, which raised $350. In the photo JCDA members, Beatrice and Ella Thompson, Mary Reeping and Molly Thompson are seen with their nicely decorated tree.
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NEBRASKA COURT SPEAKER HELPS THE HUNGRY BLACK DRESS SKIT BY WISCONSIN COURT Court La Crosse # 1183, La Crosse, Wisconsin, hosted a salad luncheon featuring a Black Dress Skit at the Blessed Sacrament Parish Center. One hundred forty-five men, women, and children attended. It was a great example of working together and enjoying the day to build good relations with the court and parish. Proceeds were used to establish a fund to help struggling families of court members during their time of need. The photo shows the entertainment stage set among the luncheon tables.
PUERTO RICO COURT BRINGS NURSING HOME JOY Court Santa Rosa de Lima #612, Bayamón, Puerto Rico, collected lightly used ladies’ blouses from court members which were donated to residents of Hogar Nuestra Señora de la Providencia in San Juan, Puerto Rico. This is a residential nursing facility which cares for the elderly and is administered by Hermanitas de los Ancianos Desamparados. The activity brought much joy to homebound ladies who tried on the blouses, sang, and asked that the court repeat this activity. In the photo, left to right, court members Elsita Joglar, Norma Flores, Ana López Jusino, Mother Superior Blanca Bravo, Olga Grajales, Myrta Laabes and Regent Nimia Rivas.
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Ashley Stevens was the speaker for the Advent by Candlelight (ABC) event organized by Court William McDonald #1009, Hastings, Nebraska. Over 180 women opened their hearts to Ashley’s talk entitled “Striving for a Mary Advent in a Busy Martha World.” Her presentation centered on the four advent candles signifying peace, hope, faith and joy. Table hostesses treated the guests to dessert, wine and a special treat of their choosing. It was a free will donation and the proceeds fed 22 families. In the photo, left to right, ABC Co-Chairman Marie Butler, Regent Peg Welch and ABC Co-Chairman Joan Neinaber.
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COLLEGE DORM “FROZEN” BY TEXAS COURT
COOKIE SALE BY NEVADA COURT
Court Maria Galante #115, Austin, Texas, held its 25th annual Christmas event for dorm residents at the Austin State School. The theme of this year’s event was “Frozen,” and there was much fun and singing by all. In the photo, left to right, Noami Ippolito, LaNelle Blahuta, Catherine Longoria and Vykkii Langley.
Court Our Lady of the Rosary #2226, Las Vegas, Nevada, held its annual Christmas cookie sale at Holy Family Catholic Church in Las Vegas. Pictured with their beautifully wrapped cookie containers, left to right, Dolores Campuzano, Kathleen Balchunas, Eileen Quinn, Regent Dorothy Calabrese, Theresa Haddad, Vicki Springer and, seated, Nancy Rossi (the court’s 101-year-old member).
LOUISIANA COURT RECEIVES VOLUNTEER AWARD Court Divine Mercy #2318, Baton Rouge, Louisiana, was awarded the Jeff & Nellie Guidry Volunteer Award presented each year by The Arc of Louisiana (an organization of and for people with intellectual and developmental disabilities and their families). The special recognition was to acknowledge the many court members who have volunteered for Thanksgiving and Christmas activities at the local Arc. Court members in the photo with their award, left to right, Virginia Burton, Terri Barber, Victoria Millet, Mary Poole, Susan Benjamin, Shari McVey, Regent Gennie Shannon, Renee Caruso, Janet Marzloff, Glenda Landry, Sharlene Dantin, Marian Munroe, Vera Harrell, Kathy Delafield and Edrie Moran.
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CALIFORNIA COURT HELPS PREGNANCY CENTER
Members of Court Our Lady of Victory #564, Pine Bluff, Arkansas, celebrated CDA Sunday with an afternoon of Bunco and feasted on a wide array of food prepared by the Social Committee with special guest Arkansas State Chaplain Rev. Joe Marconi. During the festivities the court welcomed Mary Shannon Fikes as their newest member. Those attending the Bunco Party were asked to bring canned goods for Neighbor to Neighbor, an organization that provides meals for those in need. Members delivering the canned goods are pictured, left to right, Angelique Ford, Mary Shannon Fikes, Director of Neighbor to Neighbor Pat Tate, Arkansas State Regent Trudy Pascale and Regent Kathryn Brickey.
Court Our Lady of Shasta #2312, Redding, California, in conjunction with Knights of Columbus Council #3978, co-sponsored a successful spaghetti dinner to raise funds to purchase a new sonogram machine for Care Net Pregnancy Center in Redding. Care Net is a safe haven for women and men in Northern California facing an unexpected pregnancy. Care Net provides free, verified pregnancy testing and sonograms to qualifying patients in their first trimester. In the photo, left to right, court member Ruth Smith and Knights of Columbus members Ed Grinton, Glenn Thompson and Andy Reiss stand next to the new sonogram machine they donated to Care Net.
NORTH CAROLINA COURT BEARS IT! Court Our Lady of the Miraculous Medal #2588, Havelock, North Carolina, held a Victory Junction Bear Stuffing Day! While Janice Southworth sewed the bears, other members added the fill. The bears were made and donated by court member Lucy Hamric. The result was coffee, snacks, and a fun morning for all. In the photo smiles of satisfaction brighten the “Bear Stuffers” as they surround their handiwork.
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GUAM COURT BRINGS THANKSGIVING TO FRIARS FUND RAISER BY NEW JERSEY COURT Court St. Elizabeth #1486, Avon-by-the-Sea, New Jersey, announced at a pizza party that the court’s fall fund raising event raised over $11,000. The court distributed the proceeds among 18 local charities and through scholarships to local grammar and high school students. This year the court also planned to make a $500 donation to the Sam Jarner Fund. Sam is a local high school student who was seriously injured and whose long and expensive recovery is being helped by many community organizations.
Court Our Lady of Camarin #2047, Hagatna, Guam, delivered turkey and trimmings to Capuchin Friars on Thanksgiving. In the photo at the Thanksgiving table before the Friars enjoyed their delicious meal, seated, left to right, Capuchin Brother Jason, Capuchin Father Patrick and LouJean Borja. Standing, left to right, Marylou Agustin, Teresita “Terry” Alegarbes, Regent Priscilla “Pat” Muna, Marian Aflague, Asuncion “Connie” Cruz and Celerina Cruz.
CALIFORNIA COURTS HOLD BISHOP’S BURSE Court St. Joachim #2553, Madera, California, hosted the Bishop’s Burse with partners Court St. John #2526, Fresno, and Court Our Lady of Good Success #1661, Clovis. Those present included California state officers and sisters from other courts within the diocese. Lunch was served and Most Rev. Joseph V. Brennan, Bishop, Diocese of Fresno, spoke and also sang a beautiful song. A raffle and basket drawing were held with many items donated by court members. In the photo Court St. Joachim members and District Deputy Maureen Laubacher stand with Bishop Brennan and Pastor Rev. John Warburton O.S.
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ROYALTY BY MINNESOTA COURT Court St. Rita #409, Perham, Minnesota, crowned residents of Perham Living as King and Queen at a balloon-filled ceremony on Valentine’s Day. Court St. Rita sponsors the crowning each year. Master of Ceremonies, Regent Dianne Rohde-Szarke, welcomed royalty and guests. Event Chairman Ann Dardis, her daughter Joanna and Junior Catholic Daughters entertained. JCDA members also presented Valentine cards and treats to guests. The three kings and three queens can be seen in the photo.
Court Mother Cabrini #1766, Sydney, Montana, joined Knights of Columbus to organize a brunch after Mass to honor parish veterans. A special prayer was read and the veterans were asked to stand for parish recognition. In the picture Karen Parker and Court Regent Deborah Wersland stand respectfully behind their father, Korean Veteran Larry Gamache who is finishing a delicious meal.
CHRISTMAS WREATHS BY TEXAS COURT Beatrice Salas and Helen Juniper of Court St. Helena of the Cross #2679, San Antonio, Texas, are seen in the photo wearing festive attire at Heartland Health Care Center in San Antonio where they helped residents make Christmas wreaths.
OKLAHOMA COURT PRAYS FOR FATIMA Court St. Jude #2166, Lawton, Oklahoma, prayed for the 102nd Anniversary of Our Lady of Fatima with parishioners and Deacon Bob Quinnett leading the Rosary. Participants gathered in the courtyard of the Blessed Sacrament Catholic Church and children passed out candy while waiting for others to arrive. During the ceremony court members and other attendees prayed The Rosary and sang to our Lady of Fatima.
NEW JERSEY COURT DONATES TO ST. VINCENT DE PAUL Court St. Rose of Lima #737, Freehold, New Jersey, supports the St. Vincent de Paul Society. As can be seen in the photo, over 300 new children’s hats, scarves, gloves and pairs of socks were donated by members at their monthly meeting and subsequently delivered to St. Vincent’s to benefit their clients.
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MONTANA COURT HONORS VETERAN DAD
NEBRASKA WELCOMES NEW COURT BREAKFAST PLAY BY PENNSYLVANIA COURT Court St. Bernard #339, Indiana, Pennsylvania, invited children and their families to breakfast and a play in which the children were actors. The children dressed up and acted out the birth of Jesus in the play that was narrated by Reverend Donald Conroy. The court had help setting up, cooking, and directing the children from the Grandmothers Corp and Knights of Columbus from St. Bernard Church in Indiana. In the photo the young “actors” can be seen performing the Nativity.
Newly-instituted Court Santa Maria #2760, Grand Island, Nebraska, welcomed 32 charter members and installed Rev. Jim Golka as court chaplain. Those helping with the celebration were Nebraska State Regent Barb Jensen, First Vice State Regent Betty Fredericks, Second Vice State Regent Kim Meduna, State Secretary Janet Mackley, and State Treasurer Teresa Kehler, District Deputy Joan Nienaber, members and officers of sponsoring Court Ave Maria #1263, Grand Island; and visiting court members and officers from Court Queen of Peace #2227, also of Grand Island.
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NEW YORK COURT PRACTICES SOCIAL DISTANCING WHILE HONORING MEMBER Covid19 did not prevent Court St. Ann, Mother of Mary #2419, Washingtonville, New York, from honoring deceased member Maureen Bowes. A technique was used with a line of cars allowing for social distancing while paying respects during a funeral service at St. Mary’s Cemetery. The banner was held by Janet Heidemann (seen in the picture) and Diane Meore directed traffic so all had access to the service. Among those present were Court Regent Gail Erickson, New York State Regent Heather Rave and Immediate Past National Regent Helene Shepard. The service was led by Pastor and Immediate Past National Clergy Consultant Rev. Jeffrey Maurer, assisted by Father Matthew MacDonald, Brother Zachary Alspauch and Father Paul Democh. The pallbearers were sons and grandchildren.
MILITARY SUPPORTED BY NEW YORK COURT Court Patricia #195, Newburgh, New York, collects items annually to be sent to our military overseas. Items include “goodies” and basic necessities which are very difficult for them to get. The soldiers appreciate the program, entitled “Support our Heroes,” which was started by Lucy Mercado when her son was in the military. “Our military members look forward to receiving these packages from the states,” Lucy said. “It re-assures them that we are thinking of them and support them.” In the photo members gather behind a table containing the gift items they will send to the military.
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PENNSYLVANIA COURT ACHIEVES FAME
NEVADA STATE CHAPLAIN CELEBRATES ANNIVERSARY Several Nevada courts honored their state chaplain, Rev. John McShane, with a reception to celebrate his 45th ordination anniversary. The celebration began with Mass at St. Anne Catholic Church, followed by a luncheon, themed in traditional Notre Dame football style, Father’s favorite team. In attendance were fellow priests, parishioners, supporters of Fr. McShane’s homeless outreach program, members of the Las Vegas Notre Dame Club and many CDA sisters from the hosting courts. The event was one not soon to be forgotten by Father or anyone in attendance. In the photo are court members with Father McShane.
NEW MEMBERS WELCOMED BY IOWA COURT Court Our Lady of Good Counsel #216, Fort Dodge, Iowa, welcomed 15 new members during the court’s Reception of New Members Mass. Ceremonial Coordinator Rose Mary Ruddy directed the reception. Mass was celebrated by Monsignor Kevin McCoy with music provided by the CDA Choir accompanied by Julie Hoesel. After Mass a delicious turkey dinner was served by the Food Committee. The court strives to reach out to other Catholic women and offer them the friendships and spiritual benefits that we value as Catholic Daughters.
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Officers and Members of Court Mystical Rose #2628, Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, were inducted into the Hall of Fame at St. Katherine of Sienna Church. Family and friends attended Mass followed by a luncheon and induction ceremony in the parish hall. Also inducted for their work for parish and community were court members Lorraine Gribben and Betty Maier, and Betty’s husband. Congratulations to all! In the photo, front row, Financial Secretary Maryann Voystock, Mary Becker, Betty Corcoran, Recording Secretary Betty Maier, Connie Scholl and Marie Galen. Back row, Henrietta Hassinger, Vice Regent Lorraine Gribben, National Director Peggy Guckin, Pat Mundy, Violet Cali, Bernadette Mulholland, Regent Sara Janulewicz, Kathy Mulholland, Treasurer Donna Bradley, Pennsylvania State Secretary Colette McCaffrey, Mary Mullin and Marge Hall.
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Several members of Court Queen of Peace #1558, Slayton, Minnesota, gathered at the local nursing home where court member Margaret Konkol resides to bring her holiday cheer during the Christmas season. In the photo are Jan Bryan, Margaret Konkol, Joanne Halbur, Doris Carda, Jake Konkol, Rita Lear, Bev Schreier and Joyce Risacher.
MASSACHUSETTS STATE HELPS CARDINAL
SEMINARIAN SUPPORTED BY TEXAS COURT Court Ancillae Mariae #1886, Crosby, Texas, presented a $500 check to Zachary Muldrow to support his vocation. Zachary is a seminarian from Sacred Heart Church in Crosby. The money will be used for books and school expenses while he is currently attending University of St. Thomas in Houston. In the photo, Zachary can be seen with Regent Loretta Rockwell.
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The Massachusetts State Board presented Cardinal Patrick Sean O’Malley, Archbishop of Boston, with a check in the amount of $10,000 for the Archdiocesan Fund for the Unborn. The fund is administered by the Pro-Life Office to provide support to mothers and babies served by its Pregnancy Help ministry. Over the years the Catholic Daughters have been the largest donor to the fund – over $150,000 since 1999. The money is raised through its “Pennies for the Unborn” campaign where CDA members collect pennies and other spare change at different parishes and meetings. In the photo, Massachusetts State Regent Nancy Meehan presents the check to Cardinal O’Malley, who thanked the CDA for their exceptional generosity and told them how much he appreciated that they presented it by check rather than bringing all the pennies they collected!
NEVADA COURT HONORS MEMBERS Court Ave Maria #1420, Las Vegas, Nevada, which was instituted 73 years ago and is the oldest court in Nevada, held a luncheon for 17 members and presented membership pins to them. Honored for their commitment to the court were Patricia Schmutz and Carrie Thomas (35 years); Mariann Kaczmercyk (25 years); Janet O’Donnell (20 years); Carmen Miller (15 years); Carmella Chris, Vivian McMurray, Vicky Woodward, Kimberly Muchowicz and Mary Lopez (10 years); Margie Black, Celeste Lopez, Dee Cline, Concetta Tedesco, Dinah Jacobucci, Kathy Hofer, Marti Dupras and Maria Fernandez (5 years).
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IOWA COURT MEMBER CELEBRATED Court St. Andrew #1540, Sibley, Iowa, held a birthday party for the court’s oldest and most long-term member, Zita Thiele. Zita celebrated her 106-year birthday and has been a faithful Catholic Daughter for 86 years. Zita resides at Country View Manor now, but lived at home until recently. She remains a bright and active person who is an inspiration to many. She does crossword puzzles and participates in many activities at the home. In the photo, front row, left to right, Yvonne O’leary, Aletha Gacke, Judy Johnson, “birthday guest” Zita and Mary Wick. Back row, left to right, Lila Hatting, Jan Walton, Betty Wessels, Jerri Palsrok, Marion Roetzel, Mary Jean Nilles, Deb Hulley, Julie Schroder, Barb Nilles, Lois Marco, Marilyn Fisher, Lorraine Poss and Hanna Wiersma.
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Court Our Lady of Schoenstatt, #2672, Weslaco, Texas, was proud to have charter member Edna Garza Sanchez participate in the local Weslaco Centennial Christmas Parade. Edna, who was privileged to be honored in the parade, is pictured waving to the crowd from a float representing early settlers from Weslaco. Her family was well known in Weslaco and her grandfather, Guadalupe Gongora, an early lawman, was one of two constables in charge of keeping the peace on the north side of town.
Contemplative Enigmas: Insights and Aid on the Path to Deeper Prayer By Father Donald Haggerty (Ignatius Press, San Francisco, CA, 2020)
Reviewed by Peggy Eastman
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any of us would like to have a deeper prayer life, but
worries are forgotten. Once we are in this hidden inner place, our
this proves elusive. There are just too many competing
hunger for God burns within us and drives all other thoughts but
distractions and time-wasting temptations. Now Father
Him from our minds.
Donald Haggerty, a priest of the Archdiocese of New York, has written a blueprint for opening our hearts to a closer relationship with Christ.
contemplative prayer. The author does not sugar-coat the journey
This is a book for anyone in any walk of life who feels drawn to inward, which is difficult and requires a loss of control as we turn
Father Haggerty, author of other books on contemplative prayer,
ourselves completely over to God. Most people fear losing control,
has been a professor of moral theology at St. Joseph’s Seminary
but in this instance it is necessary to willingly give our control to
in New York and Mount St. Mary’s Seminary in Maryland. He has a
God. I very much liked the prayer of a contemplative nun included
long association with Mother Teresa’s Missionaries of Charity and
in the book, in which she says in part, “My beloved Lord, I offer my
has conducted numerous retreats for them. In this book, he states
soul to you as your hiding place, your haven of concealment. Take
that “Prayer is at heart an interior action of receptivity to God.” He
possession of the depths that I cannot see or feel. Let the silence
also states that “Insights come often in spirituality as we pray with
there be a place to rest your voice, let my dry longing be your
a sense of anticipation and receptive waiting.”
comfort and welcome. I want to be altogether yours. I ask that you
Receptive waiting is an unfamiliar concept in today’s fast-paced
make my soul your own possession.”
world; it means sitting quietly without interruptions and being
Father Haggerty writes that we cannot know what may come
ready for contemplative intimacy with God. This is quite different
after we have offered up our souls so completely to God. And he
from waiting impatiently in line to check out at a grocery store.
notes that Mary, mother of Jesus, could not have known what would
A glance at some of the chapter headings gives a sense of the
happen when she offered up herself wholly and sacrificially to God.
focus and scope of Father Haggerty’s book: A Leap of Self-Offering,
He writes, “Let us remember that Mary likewise could not know how
The Language of Silent Love, The Holy Mystery of Transcendence,
her own Yes at the Annunciation would alter her expectations of
and Conversion to a Love for Prayer. The author cites the words of
life.” Mary said yes to God, and, following her example, so can we.
spiritual pillars of the Church such as St. Teresa of Avila, St. John
“It is as if a threshold has already been crossed once we become
Henry Newman, St. John of the Cross and St. Edith Stein. This is
aware that our yearning for God never leaves us, that it never ceases
not a how-to book, but rather an invitational guide to a giving of
even when we are not conscious of it,” writes Father Haggerty. “Our
self more completely to God. The cover, of a monastery cloister, is
soul needs to give an answer to that blessing.”
a perfect visual invitation.
It is difficult to write so convincingly about such transcendent
“It is as if by a more complete surrender to God we enter secret
spirituality, but this is territory the author knows well and
caverns within the soul,” writes Father Haggerty. “These inner
writing is fluid. Father Haggarty is wise, he is thoughtful, he is
caverns seem to be places within the soul of limitless desire for
never abstruse. Cardinal Timothy Dolan, the Archbishop of New
God.” As I read, I thought of sinking under water and being in
York, states of the book, “This penetrating yet accessible, deep
a realm of silence and intimacy with the watery surroundings, a
but readable guide will leave us more consoled, competent, and
place where we breathe without effort and our own desires and
conversant in the noble art of prayer.”
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